i’ve been indulging myself in some serious sex & the city time.

and big is infuriating. failing to commit. refusing to introduce carrie to his mother. and then running off to paris only to marry someone else? ew! and what’s worse is that after all that carrie still doesn’t value herself enough to cut ties with him.

now, i love me some carrie. i really really do. i love the clothes. i love the writing (duh). and i love her relationship with her friends. and i relate to all of it…but the big thing i can’t get on board with.

big is self-absorbed, not interested in getting to know her friends, and completely unavailable. aidan is sweet, great with his hands, funny, and isn’t afraid of commitment. NO BRAINER.

so, while i do have a post-it as a lovely remnant of my last relationship and a closet (or three) full of clothing, for me, it’s always been aidan.