why is that the guys that you’re not interested in are always the ones that will fight for a chance with you?

if i say i don’t want to go out with you…you don’t need to convince me otherwise.

this is not okay!

5/25/11
So, I guess I’ll just come out and ask…Would you be interested in getting together for a drink or something? Always wanted to ask when you were at –.

Anyway, figured I’d ask. Let me know. Cell phone is at the bottom of this if you want to text.

Take care

5/26/11
So, I hope I didn’t flip you out with my previous email about the drink! Just thought I’d ask. I guess I can be a little direct sometimes. Apologies if I offended you.

Have a good holiday week-end.

I replied that I wasn’t interested and that I thought he had a girlfriend…

5/28/11
Well my phone has been broken for a day and then I got your email. First of all, —- and I have been broken up for about 8 months now so that isn’t an issue. Hope that helps:).

a) i’m not worried that i haven’t heard from you for a day.
b) i’m still not interested

5/31/11
So, I’m headed back to San Diego today. Now that you know I’m not in a relationship does that help my chances of getting to have a drink or dinner;) Hope you had a great holiday week-end.

week-end is NOT hyphenated.
and i’m STILL NOT INTERESTED.

6/5/11
Any thought to having a drink? I’m in the Ukraine right now! Pretty cool place. If I’m bugging you, just let me know:)

my reply:

you’re very persistent. truth is, i have virtually zero free time.

and i actually don’t really drink.

i appreciate the invitation, but i must decline.

i’m just very selfish with the few minutes of spare time i get.

enjoy the ukraine.

6/5/11
That’s totally understandable. Yes, I am usually. How about you pick ANYTHING to do that you wouldn’t mind a persistent person to share with you? No harm, no foul. I think you would find that your minutes with me would be worth it;).

i can only assume that this is a thinly veiled attempt at a little innuendo…i mean, wow.

6/9/11
Yes, its me again. Have you figured out a sway to fit me in to an hour or so sometime in your busy schedule? I won’t bite you;)

biting wasn’t even a thought that entered my mind, this isn’t twilight…but ooooooooook. great. glad to know i won’t be bitten. you’re jacob, not edward. got it.

6/13/11
So, i’m trying again:) How about dinner some time soon? I’m sure we would have a good time and if not, then at least you got a free dinner:)

i can buy my own dinner. and honestly, i’d rather eat dinner alone than with someone i’m not interested in.

my last reply says: no, thank you.

no means no.